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13

Mar

babeonicplague:

fatbodypolitics:

turnedover:

fayedaniels:

plussizepanda:

Just a heads up if you are a plus size woman on tumblr!!!


I started noticing these ads showing up on my Plenty Of Fish while I was messaging someone and I was like “these girls look really familiar”. So I started screencapping them and refreshing the page, but NOW NONE OF THE ADS COME UP! So I can’t even tell you what site is using these photos!!

If you’re on Plenty of Fish and happen to get one of these ads, screen cap it and click on it to see where it leads, then email them to me (plussizepanda@gmail.com), because I don’t want anyone’s tumblr pics being used without their knowledge!

EDIT: I found two more and I’m pretty sure that’s Faye Daniels

Here’s the site they lead to: http://www.richmen.com/tour/rich/?pg=1&g=1&prg=1&niche=m-g&id=PKMNetwork&tour=rich&ot=rich&cmp=197207&utm_source=PKMNetwork&utm_medium=197207&utm_content=_noadid&utm_campaign=rich

**EDIT managed to get a few more.

Looks like I’m not the only one.

signal boost

WTF.

even more of a reason to feel paranoid about posting photos of yourself, jeez.

For fuck’s sake. There’s a facebook page doing this too, and they give us different names. So gross.

24

Feb

esperanzaj:

applecharlotte:

Tumblr, I need your help!
I am a fashion design student in my final year looking for 6 PLUS SIZE MODELS to wear my final collection at the end of the university year around May/June time.
No previous experience is needed, just need to be between sizes UK16-UK24, and have confidence and commitment. I need women who are near London/Southampton, or prepared to travel to these places, and are available for fittings. You will also be expected to do a photoshoot for my portfolio (of which I will give you a copy of the photographs), and to be able to walk the catwalk with confidence.
Some expenses will be made for your involvement.
If you are interested, or know someone who would be ideal, either contact me through Tumblr or email me on:
Apple_Charlotte@hotmail.co.uk
Your help will be much appreciated! If I can not find models I will not be able to show my collection, and I will be devastated. :( I also can’t start properly making my collection until I know what sizes will be modelling, so it’s all a bit of a dilemma at the moment!

Hey guys, check this out if you’re in the UK and between size UK16-24. It’s a great opportunity to help someone out with an awesome project & I’m sure it’ll be a wonderful experience, too. 

I’m doing this! Come join me!

esperanzaj:

applecharlotte:

Tumblr, I need your help!

I am a fashion design student in my final year looking for 6 PLUS SIZE MODELS to wear my final collection at the end of the university year around May/June time.

No previous experience is needed, just need to be between sizes UK16-UK24, and have confidence and commitment. I need women who are near London/Southampton, or prepared to travel to these places, and are available for fittings. You will also be expected to do a photoshoot for my portfolio (of which I will give you a copy of the photographs), and to be able to walk the catwalk with confidence.

Some expenses will be made for your involvement.

If you are interested, or know someone who would be ideal, either contact me through Tumblr or email me on:

Apple_Charlotte@hotmail.co.uk

Your help will be much appreciated! If I can not find models I will not be able to show my collection, and I will be devastated. :( I also can’t start properly making my collection until I know what sizes will be modelling, so it’s all a bit of a dilemma at the moment!

Hey guys, check this out if you’re in the UK and between size UK16-24. It’s a great opportunity to help someone out with an awesome project & I’m sure it’ll be a wonderful experience, too. 

I’m doing this! Come join me!

07

Jan

Do you loves movies? Are you in London on Jan 25?

marielikestodraw:

A friend of mine has organised a Movie Geek Social, for people to meet and chat away about their loves of movies. All of you have to do is show up and buy a drink or two and have fun :D

I’ll be there too, it’s a brilliant way to meet new people in London and maybe find a cinema buddy, and maybe, just, have a great time geeking out about films :D

All you have to do is add your name to the google doc over THERE. And that’s it!

COME TO THE DARK SIDE. WE HAVE COOKIES.

03

Sep

alldolleddown:

iamsofreakingfetch:

brashblacknonbeliever:

Jeremy Renner Neo Ned Interview (by aogber2)

  1. He describes his Neo-Nazi character as “not really a Nazi” and a “poor twisted soul.”
  2. He uses the word n**ger in the interview.
  3. He said if you “take it too seriously” you “probably shouldn’t see the movie.”
  4. He says the movie, which is about a fucking NEO-NAZI FALLING “IN LOVE” WITH A BLACK WOMAN “isn’t about racism.” To him, it’s about “people with problems and how they choose to deal with them.”
  5. He describes it as “sweet and endearing.”

Can we safely add this motherfucker to the useless human being pile now?!

HEY JEREMEY!

wow no stop, fall off a cliff or something.

Ew Renner choke.

20

Aug

I’ve sent like 4-5 messages to tumblr about this, and since they won’t take action? I will.

thinkspeakstress:

stfunithingas:

highvoodoopussypope:

Dear Tumblr:

How many rape threats do I have to receive before you do your jobs? 10? 20?
50? 100?

As a victim of rape, your lack of any attention to this matter is appalling
and fucking ridiculous.

Well, here are some links for you, as well as the link to the person’s new
blog:
http://highvoodoopussypope.tumblr.com/post/21778927312/severe-tw-on-this-one
Threatens to rape and murder me.

http://highvoodoopussypope.tumblr.com/post/21778881965/remember-how-i-asked-for-proof-about-where-ive-been
Throws slurs against black people, makes rape threats out to be a “joke”.

http://highvoodoopussypope.tumblr.com/post/21778852570/hmmmm-and-im-the-bad-person
“Funny” rape is okay on tumblr, apparently.

http://highvoodoopussypope.tumblr.com/post/21778834262/so-this-fuckhead-http-1900fuckoff-tumblr-com
More “funny” rape.

http://highvoodoopussypope.tumblr.com/post/21778807726/report-this-page
Admitted stalking.

http://highvoodoopussypope.tumblr.com/post/21778774295/1900fuckoff-im-probably-going-to-hit-my-post
Rachel being transphobic and leaving the new name of her blog
21fatstreet.tumblr.com so that you can ban both.

http://highvoodoopussypope.tumblr.com/post/21778760256/hmmmm-and-im-the-bad-person
Another rape threat.

http://highvoodoopussypope.tumblr.com/post/21778740643/princess-brat-the-difference-between-jokes-and-actual
Rachel threatens to rape a completely different person, but it’s okay, because it’s just LOLZ.

http://highvoodoopussypope.tumblr.com/post/21778714590/the-difference-between-jokes-and-actual-oppression
Rachel links to her own stalker behavior and rape threats, claiming that all of this is okay because it’s just JOKES and rairaichu should be banned for calling me a nigger.

These are only the rape threats against me that I could manage to go
through. THE RAPE THREATS GO ON FOR PAGES AGAINST ME AND OTHER PEOPLE UNDER THE GUISE OF “A JOKE”.

HOW MANY RAPE AND MURDER THREATS ARE OKAY, TUMBLR?

HOW. MANY?

* * * * * * *

Signal boost the shit out of this. Report these shitstains to abuse@tumblr.com and support@tumblr.com. Rape and murder threats from a white person to a PoC is no fucking joke, and this chick is posting any personal information she thinks she can get, while claiming that the intent to rape me is a “joke”.

I am not fucking standing for it.

changed links to current url, also current url of this person is chchikadee

Boosting the hell out of this.

(Source: crackerhell)

30

Jul

List of fat tumblr bloggers who should go away.

sugaredvenom:

liannalives:

quelola:

In order to create safe space for the rest of us, those of us that are not white cis women who are the mainstream definition of “beautiful” and acceptable fat, we have to hold each other accountable, utilize the spaces we share (tumblr is a space we share) and make them safe. So, with that spirit in mind, I’m puttin this list together because these are active and popular white “fat acceptance” or “fat” bloggers who make tumblr an unsafe space for the rest of us. Feel free to add more people and give us a brief description if you want about their bullshit.

This list goes out to all the fat poc, disabled, queer, death fat, trans*, femme, othered beautiful people. So we can help each other in solidarity.

Being on this list means:
They have to stop talking about fat politics until they address their privilege.
They actively participat/particpated in body shaming of someone else.
Have little to no concept of intersectional experiences and how their privilege allows them to shame those who are not on the same axis’ as them.
I do not want to see them on my dash unless there is critical commentary attached.
They actively participate in white supremacy, whether blatantly or covertly.
They make tumblr an unsafe space for anyone who doesn’t identify with their privileged perspective on body an fat politics.
Do not hold themselves accountable when called out.
I will unfollow and hold you accountable if you reblog them knowing they create unsafe environments for a lot of us or you perpetuate and
support their bullshit.
They refuse to do the necessary work in checking themselves, placing the burden on others to educate them.

If you would like me to edit this list to include someone and/or provide links or anecdotes or “reciepts” please message me. Some of these are included per the recommendation of others.


The List (Name and reason for inclusion. I’ll add links at a later time to said call outs when I have computer access or feel free to add them in yourself. I will not provide links to their blogs though. Their names below are their tumblr names but I will not directly link to them.

AmeliaButter: her participation in that PORK Magazine bullshit.
Red3blog: has spoken over a women of color in defense of white supremacy. Adds commentary to posts by woc in an attempt to recenter conversation on white fat issues.
Kylathegreat: Does not hold herself accountable when called out, covert white supremacist, shamed a poc on more than one occassion, is ableist and racist.
Queerfatfemme: Reblogged racist posts and posts by people knowing theyre white supremacist.
PussyBow: White supremacists who promotes racist regalia and doesn’t hold herself accountable when called out.
Chubby-Bunnies: Ableist and doesn’t hold herself accountable to call outs.

ETA: Per the comments and messages of others:
Chubby-cartwheels: Defended AmeliaButters bullshit/white supremacy
FemmesandFamily: White centric blog with little evaluation of privilege
Oh-hey-Brittany: Derailed conversation about race and ~wants racism off her dash and harmony~

This list is fucked up.
Especially since not all of these blogs are even focused on fat acceptance, or body positivity. They’re just girls with blogs, who happen to be plus-size too. However, since they’re “fat tumblr bloggers,” they must be involved in tumblr social justice, and therefore they should “go away.”
When’s the next “hot or not” list coming out guise?

You’re missing the point. 

If you are a fat person interested in FA, then it’s only natural to follow people with similar interests. The nature of Tumblr is such that we all network within those interest groups, and become exposed to lots of people. But FA has problems. It often erases and marginalises people with less privilege, and as with all things, the white, cis, straight and able among us will be given a platform they don’t really deserve. This list is a method of addressing that issue, and letting PoC, disabled people etc. know who they can feel safe following, and in general for all of us to be held accountable and know what sort of people we’re interacting with.

The internet, and specifically Tumblr FA doesn’t happen in a vacuum. If you don’t want to end up on a list like this, don’t be a dick. It’s that simple.

25

Jul

- POC - CREATORS COLLECTIVE! REBLOG!

thefatdripsgold:

Are you tired of throwing things at the tv/movie screen/book/game/web series because creators can’t seem to stay away from damaging and hurtful stereotypes?
Have you had it up to here with arguing that whitewashing is not, was not and will NEVER be a good thing?

Do you dream of producing, distributing, marketing, films, art, comics, novels and other media that digs into our rich wide and varied histories, stories, inspirations and fantasies with a group of like-minded people?

Then poc-creators may be for you.   

If you are interested in joining us, please contact us at your social networking platform of choice: on facebook  by liking our page; and on tumblr by sending a message to searchingforknowlege with your email address. We look forward to welcoming you all!

Please signal boost!

20

Jul

Resources and support groups for LGBTQ Muslims

inflateablefilth:

living-in-technicolor:

amillionexpectations:

On tumblr:

  • Queer Muslims - A space for queer Muslims to connect, express themselves and share resources. (A real treasure trove of articles, links and book reviews). 
  • I am not Haraam project - a blog for LGBTQ Muslims to celebrate their identities and share their experiences.

Source: the website of the Safra project based in the UK. The full list (which also includes resources not solely targeted at Muslims can be found by clicking here.) However, below is a list of the resources specifically targeted to Muslims.

  • Imaan - UK based
    A social support group for Muslim lesbian, gays, bisexuals, transgender, those questioning their sexuality or gender identity and their friends and supporters.
    Website: http://www.imaan.org.uk/ 
     
  • Safra Project- UK based
    A Resource Project working on issues relating to lesbian, bisexual. trans, queer and questioning women who identify as Muslim religiously and/or culturally.

    E-mail: info@safraproject.org
    Website: http://www.safraproject.org

    Listserve-dealing with issues concerning lesbian, bisexual and transgender women that identify as Muslim religiously or culturally.
     
  • Safra Project Social Group- meets monthly in the UK, check website events notice for dates and venues.
    http://groups.yahoo.com/group/safra_project/ 
     
  • Salaam Canada
    ‘Salaam: Queer Muslim community’ is a Muslim Identified Organization dedicated to social justice, peace and human dignity through its work to bring all closer to a world that is free from injustice, including prejudice, discrimination, racism, misogyny, sexism and homophobia.
    http://www.salaamcanada.com/ 
     
  • The Inner Circle
    The Inner Circle strives to reconcile sexuality and faith, and foster friendship through a positive peer group for gay, lesbian, transgendered and other sexually marginalized persons particularly of the Muslim community, as well as persons of other religions or cultures who experience similar or related challenges, and all those who support our aims.
    They provide information through news/events, articles, discussions and life-orientation. They also have experts and qualified voluntary workers to deal with your queries and counseling, assisting individuals in reconciling their faith with their sexuality and dealing with other sexually related issues.http://www.theinnercircle.org.za/ 
     
  • BiMuslims 
    An email discussion group for Muslims who identify as bisexual or who may be questioning their sexual orientation. Anything relevant to the bisexual Muslim community can be discussed on this forum. It is intended to be a safe space for Muslims who are bisexual and who want tomeet other Muslims who are also bisexual.
    http://groups.yahoo.com/group/BiMuslims 
     
  • Muslim Gay Men
    MuslimGayMen is a group for Muslim gay men and their friends and allies.
    http://www.yahoogroups.com/list/muslimgaymen 
     
  • Partners of LGBT Muslims
    To bring non-Muslim partners (who are in relationships with Muslims) together to discuss issues of common concern.
    http://groups.yahoo.com/group/PartnersOfLGBTMuslims
  • TransMuslims (need Yahoo sign in)
    An email discussion group for Muslims who identify as transgender, and for those that consider themselves gender variant. This includes anyone that identifies as an MTF (male to female) or an FTM (female to male). Issues of relevance to the Trans Muslim community are welcome on this list, including gender identity, issues of gender socialization in Islam, sex reassignment surgery, and Islam’s views towards transgendered people.
    http://www.groups.yahoo.com/group/TransMuslims
  • Queer Jihad
    A web site devoted to the needs of GLBT Muslims. Website:http://www.well.com/user/queerjhd/
  • Queer Muslims
    Resources for GLBT Muslims. Has information about Islam and Transsexuals.
    http://www.angelfire.com/ca2/queermuslims
I would also like to add Muslims for Progressive Values. From their site: Muslims for Progressive Values (MPV) is an inclusive community rooted in the traditional Qur’anic ideals of human dignity and social justice. We welcome all who are interested in discussing, promoting and working for the implementation of progressive values — human rights, freedom of expression, and separation of church and state — as well as inclusive and tolerant understandings of Islam.

In case anyone needs this :D

12

Jul

THIS MESSAGE NEED TO BE REBLOGGED IF YOU GIVE A SLIVER OF A DAMN ABOUT TRANS RIGHTS

modernistwitchery:

jillygolightly:

If you know of individuals who have been in a correctional/prison facility in Nevada who were/are transgender and subjected to any sort of problematic treatment (particularly being segregated from the rest of the inmates in a solitary-confinement situation) please contact me as soon as possible. The ACLU is doing some important research and documentation on this issue, and we need to get in touch with folks quickly for potential interviews or written reports. Please spread the word far and wide, and contact me directly with any leads at the information below:

Phil Hooper
ACLU of Nevada
702.366.1536 x204
hooper@aclunv.org



THE NEVADA ACLU IS STARTING A CASE THAT WILL END TRANSGENDER CIVIL RIGHT VIOLATIONS IN PRISONS. IT IS BEGINNING HERE IN NEVADA BUT THIS HAS THE POTENTIAL TO INCITE MAJOR CHANGE


I CARE NOT WHERE YOU LIVE< WHAT CITY< WHAT STATE< WHAT COUNTRY  PLEASE REBLOG


this will help trans women be housed where we should be housed, this has the potential to help persons like CeCe McDonald


PLEASE PLEASE REBLOG

THIS WORD NEEDS TO GET OUT THROUGH EVERY MEDIUM WE CAN

PLEASE

SIGNED 

Jillian James

Signal boost!

11

Jul

WoC sex positivity! Signal boost and add to your list

pb-n-pineapples:

Hey everyone, 

So recently with all the laci green stuff going on, I saw a lot of people asking for WoC or PoC who talk about sex positivity etc and vloggers/youtube personalities.

From the top of my head I could only think of this tumblr, run by an awesome “fierce-haired Peurto Rican sexologist” (in her own words and she’s certainly all that and more!) so I reached out to her, and she sent me a really kind answer which I am publishing. 

Please feel free to signal boost and add your favorite sex positive websites run by (or geared towards) WoC, QPoC or just PoC in general. 

Thanks. Hope this helps =)

hi! thanks for reaching out! yes there are TONS of WOC sex educators, sexologists, etc. Some of my favs and who I know personally include:

Arielle Loren who also wrote this post on Black women teaching ppl about sex.

Nicole Clark

Advocates for youth My Sistah’s health educators do some vlogging

HomeGirl.TV I was the only sexologist giving advice but advice by other WOC def represented as we are the focus. It’s a social networking site so folks will have to log in/join to see vids. But one that is open to viewing is this one abtpartner not wanting to wear condoms.

The only vlog I’ve done was on being an abortion doula b/c i don’t have and can’t afford the technology to do it as often! my website is under construction but when it’s up i have a part re: POC writing on sex.

folks can always look into the WOC sexual health network on fb too! 

edit: she put up a link on her own tumblr too. So I am going to add this here, just so people can follow responses and resources on both the posts. If responses start coming through, I’ll be sure to reblog it. 

(Source: pbnpineapples)